Finding out you are pregnant is hard enough, and feeling pushed in a particular direction by friends or family can intensify any pressure you feel. Regardless of what anyone else thinks, and before making any decisions, slow down and make sure you have clear information and have had a chance to think about what you want.
HopePlace Fordyce offers a place to pause, ask questions, and get caring support as you sort through your next steps. Schedule an appointment today to learn how we can help.
Have You Confirmed the Pregnancy?
Before making any pregnancy decision, get a pregnancy test to confirm the pregnancy.
A home pregnancy test can be a good first step, but an ultrasound gives important details a pregnancy test alone cannot provide.
An ultrasound can show how far along the pregnancy is, whether the pregnancy is viable, and where the pregnancy is located. A pregnancy that is outside the uterus, also called an ectopic pregnancy, can become a medical emergency and needs immediate care.
Having the information an ultrasound can provide can help you better understand your situation before making a decision. And some women also find that seeing an ultrasound picture helps them put their feelings into words before talking with family or friends.
How Do You Handle Pressure From Friends and Family?
When the people around you have strong opinions, it can be difficult to form or stick to your own. You may hear arguments about money, timing, school, work, or what others think is best. Even if those voices are loud, this is still your decision.
If you are unsure about abortion, do not let anyone rush you.
Step back from the people pressuring you, and give yourself time and space to consider all your options and make the best decision for you.
What If Talking to Them Feels Difficult?
Conversations with family or friends can be difficult and emotional, especially if they have already made their opinions clear. Consider speaking with a counselor first so you can prepare for those conversations. Counseling can help you find the words to explain how you feel and express your desires when the time comes.
You may also want to bring a trusted friend who is on your side. Sometimes simply knowing you are not alone can make a hard conversation easier.
What If the Pressure Starts to Feel Unsafe?
Get to safety and call for help right away if anyone becomes hostile, threatening, or makes you feel afraid. No one should be intimidated or frightened into any decision, especially a decision about their pregnancy.
HopePlace Fordyce is here to support you. Schedule an appointment today to meet with our caring team.
HopePlace Fordyce does not provide or refer for abortions.