Everyone has an opinion these days. Your friends and family mean well, but their views can sometimes feel like demands.
No one has the right to pressure you to make one decision over another. You are the only one living with the final outcome. Therefore, you should be the only one to decide. Here are a few ideas for dealing with nosy relatives and demanding friends.
Get Information About All of Your Options
One of the best ways to combat pressure from friends and family is to talk with a neutral third party about all your options. When you know what is available, people will see that you’ve taken time to make your decision.
At HopePlace, you are seen and heard. A member of our team talks with you about your situation and reviews all of the available options. You have three choices: have an abortion, choose to parent, or make an adoption plan.
We gain nothing from the decision you make. Our certified Life Coaches can offer unbiased information to help you decide. Schedule a free and confidential appointment today.
If You’re Considering Abortion
Women usually don’t share much about their abortion experience. They worry about being judged or rejected. Choosing to have an abortion is a big decision.
For some women, an abortion provides immediate relief. For others, particularly those who feel pressured by others, an abortion can cause regret, sadness, and anxiety.
Only you know what’s best for your future. It’s essential to understand that abortion comes with specific side effects and potential physical and emotional risks. Get the facts first.
Set Healthy Boundaries
Sometimes we just need to set boundaries with our “well-meaning” friends and family. If someone is forcing their opinion on you, it’s okay to say, “I appreciate your concern, but I need time to think it through.”
Your friends and family need to understand that you will be the only one to decide your next step. Don’t let others pressure you to talk about it or force you to make a quick decision.
Pressure to Abort
Friends or relatives can manipulate you through their words. Pressure can sound like:
- “If you don’t have an abortion, your life is over.”
- “Your boyfriend will leave you if you don’t get rid of it.”
- “You’ll be on your own. We won’t help you.”
- “You don’t really have any other choice.”
Even if you know these people care about you, it doesn’t help to add extra pressure. You need to be free to make the best decision for today and your future.
Come Talk With Us
It costs nothing to speak with one of our Life Coaches. We understand your situation is unique. Whether you’re overwhelmed, confused, or afraid, we’re here to help you find peace and confidence in your next steps. No pressure. No agenda. Just support.
Schedule a free and confidential appointment to talk with us. We’re here for you.
HopePlace does not perform or refer for abortion.