Depending on your family dynamics, sharing your unexpected pregnancy and the possibility of abortion with your family can either be meaningful or terrifying. Both are emotionally charged topics, and you may feel uncertain about how to approach the subject.
We’ve got some thoughts that might help you. If you’d like to talk privately with one of our caring client advocates before you approach your family, we’re here for you. Contact us for a free and confidential consultation.
Get the Facts About Your Pregnancy First
Before talking with your family, consider visiting HopePlace for pregnancy confirmation. We offer a free and confidential pregnancy test. Even if you’ve taken a home pregnancy test, it’s vital to take another test to confirm the results.
If your test is positive, we’ll refer you for a free limited OB ultrasound. An ultrasound provides additional information about your pregnancy. You’ll learn if the pregnancy is viable (growing) or if you’ve miscarried. Experts estimate that as many as 26% of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage.
Plus, an ultrasound determines how far along you are in your pregnancy (the gestational age) and if the location is safe. An ultrasound is the perfect way to protect your health and safety.
Take Time to Review Your Options
Once you’ve confirmed your pregnancy, learn as much as possible about all of your options, especially abortion. You need to understand the various procedures, side effects, and potential physical and emotional risks.
You can also learn more about creating an adoption plan or choosing to parent. We’ll be happy to talk with you at HopePlace.
Think About What You Want to Share
An unexpected pregnancy and abortion are difficult topics to discuss. Take time to consider how you feel and what you want to share.
If they already know about your pregnancy, they may be wondering what you have decided to do. If they don’t know about your pregnancy or your consideration of abortion, they’ll definitely need time to absorb what you’re saying.
Be as honest and direct as possible. Help your family understand all your options and your reasons for selecting an abortion.
Having the Conversation
Find a time when your family members can sit and talk. Choose a comfortable location, be prepared to answer questions, and try not to overreact to their potential emotions.
Your family may respond with shock, sadness, confusion, or anger. They may try to pressure or threaten you into making one decision over another.
You have the freedom to draw boundaries and remind them that this is your pregnancy and your decision. No one has the legal right to force you to make a particular decision.
Support is Available at HopePlace
Although we do not perform or refer for abortion, we’re not afraid to talk about the procedures, side effects to expect, and the potential physical and emotional risks. We’ll provide factual, medically based information.
An unexpected pregnancy can feel isolating and lonely, but help is just a phone call away. Please call or text (870) 352-8506, or conveniently schedule an appointment online. We’re ready to assist you in any way possible.
All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.